A Man’s Heart
How y’all doing folks? I hope I’m not too long in updating my blog, it’s just that recently I’m tangled up with my project. Enough said, I write this blog after I watched Spiderman 3 (Wait…. I’m not giving any spoiler), which is another masterpiece among many blockbuster movies.
So, what is it with Spidey 3 this time? Well, the main theme about this movie is about Pete’s relationship with MJ which I feel most reflected in our real life’s relationship. From my manly perspective, I think that a typical relationship, a man sees his girlfriend as a single perfect creature.
In this first stage of relationship, a typical man is at his highest possessitivity. He always want to be with his girlfriend, feels jealous when his girlfriend is with other guys even if they are her friends. But, a typical man will not confront his girl yet because he is madly in love with her. Girls, if you feel that a man is acting weird in front of you (like acting cool, but looking a real geek), cheers! that guy probably falls in love with you. Another common symptom of early relationship is that a man will call you as often as possible just to say ‘How you’re doing?’ or ‘Hi? What’s up?’. They also will pick you up at school, drive you to the mall, carry your shopping bag, or cleaning your dog to give good impression to you. I think it’s a nature of a man to protect woman that makes the man willingly to do anything for a girl.
After 2-3 months, a man will soon realize that his girlfriend is not a single perfect creature anymore. He will feel that text messaging has become shorter than ever, phone call duration has shorten, and voice tone is a big matter for him (You know, when a man called his girl. His girl will naturally say ‘Yeah?’ or ‘Hello?’ rather than ‘Yes Darling?’ that’s when it becomes a problem). In this stage, man can become like a baby, wanting to be served all the time. Girls, in their head, they want more than ever. Now, this is what becomes really ugly. If you fulfilled his desire, he will crave for more such as if you normally text message him 3 times a day with 150 characters, he will demand you to text message him 6 times a day with 300 characters. On the other hand, failing to fulfill his desire will cause to the third typical stage of relationship which I will explain next.
The third typical stage relationship comes around after 5-6 months. It’s get to the point that a man feels bored with his girl. Ever heard of saying ‘Neighbour’s grass a lot greener than ours’? It’s a fact girls, a man on this stage sometime gets a little cockier and trying to reach for another girl. Maybe I’m a little bit bias, but the reason of a man conducting this action might be for several reason such as:
- Prestige, to show that he still a charismatic idiot.
- Adventure, men are natural adventurer. Likes new things.
- Desire fulfillment, seeking another girl to fulfill his desires that can’t be fulfilled by his girl. (This is the most typical reason)
Moreover, if he fell into this trap than the final stage of typical relationship has been fulfilled which is called ‘The break up’.
Now, I know that you’re thinking that ‘Did God make mistake in creating Man?’. Hehe, even I sometimes question my stupidity. So, on the behalf of men race I beg for your forgiveness for our stupidity that might hurt your feeling. It’s not your fault actually, it’s just that a man sometimes can’t understand a woman’s heart. You know, like when she says that no means yes, and yes means no. Or like she doesn’t want to see us for a while.
Our rasional mind can’t accept that easily and that’s when jealousy came. I define woman’s heart is like a pandora box, you won’t know until you open it. And when you open it, it will not be a pretty sight. Well, in the end, for bitter or worst, I wish you girls that have boyfriends have a nice relationship. And boys who read this, please be patient with your girl, I know it’s tough, but be a man dude, do the right thing.*Taking my guitar, sit by the window, and start singing ‘Endless Love’*
